Legendary Nollywood actor Jide Kosoko has opened up about his personal journey through polygamy, offering clarity on long-standing misconceptions.
Speaking on The Honest Bunch Podcast, the actor addressed rumors that he once had four wives at the same time.
“I didn’t have four wives at the same time, don’t get it wrong,” Kosoko said. “I had two, but I lost them. Then I married another two.”

“I’m Not Supporting Polygamy” — Kosoko Sets the Record Straight

Although he experienced polygamy firsthand, Kosoko made it clear that he does not promote or recommend it.
“I am not supporting polygamy. Not everyone can be this lucky,” he emphasized.
He explained that each person’s journey is different, and many people are not emotionally or financially equipped to manage such complexity.

Financial Pressure in a Polygamous Home Is Real

Kosoko gave a heartfelt example of how finances can create tension in a polygamous household.
He recalled a time when he celebrated one child’s birthday lavishly but couldn’t afford the same for another shortly after.
“In some polygamous homes, one child has a big birthday, and for the next, there’s no money,” he explained.
“My children and their mothers understand. If I have money, I’ll celebrate. If I don’t, that’s your fate.”

Love Must Be Shown Beyond Material Things

The actor stressed the importance of non-material expressions of love, especially in families with multiple wives and children.
“You have to show that you love them all through other ways,” Kosoko said.
“That way, when love doesn’t come with gifts or parties, they understand it’s not rejection—it’s just that you’re broke.”

Understanding, Patience, and Honest Parenting

Kosoko praised his family’s patience and understanding over the years.
He admitted that navigating polygamy requires constant emotional intelligence, especially when resources fall short.
“My kids know I love them, whether or not I throw a party. They know I try my best,” he said.

Conclusion: A Rare Look Into a Private Life

Jide Kosoko’s candid interview provided a rare, honest look into his family life and beliefs.
While he remains proud of his children and legacy, he doesn’t encourage others to follow the same path.
“Polygamy is not for everyone,” he concluded. “You need understanding, love, and above all, luck.”