When traveling, my focus is typically on experiencing the culture—primarily the fashion, music, and general atmosphere of the place. However, I don’t enjoy the travel process itself; if I could simply appear at my destination without the hassle of flights and airports, I would. Changing locations is a good way for me to rest and recharge, though I’m not a frequent international traveler. For me, it’s less about adventure and more about relaxation.

I’ve visited Ghana, South Africa, Ireland, and the United Kingdom, with my most frequent trips being to the UK and Ireland, where I have family. The Irish culture, particularly their rich traditions, speech, music, and storytelling, has captivated me. As a theatre artist, it was fascinating to see the Irish culture firsthand, especially compared to British culture.

When it comes to food, I’m not adventurous—if I don’t recognize it, I won’t try it. However, cultural differences do stand out to me, particularly the “laissez-faire” attitude abroad. In African cultures, we have clear social norms and traditions, but in places like Ireland, there’s more freedom to act however one wants. While this was not exactly shocking, it was a stark contrast.

I haven’t experienced stereotypes while traveling, likely because my trips are short visits. That said, I’m aware that some Africans living abroad do face certain biases. Personally, I maintain my confidence and stay grounded in my African identity, as we are a warm and welcoming people. It’s essential to stand one’s ground without arrogance, especially as a visitor.

In Ireland, I enjoyed exploring the countryside and historical sites like Swords and Blanchardstown, and I almost reached Tipperary. The vast open lands and castles were stunning. Similarly, in the UK, there’s a castle near my brother’s home that I’d love to use for a video shoot one day.

Packing is my biggest travel challenge. I tend to over-pack as I don’t want to find myself lacking anything once I arrive. While I’ve learned to screen my items, I still pack more than necessary. I don’t have a single “must-have” item; instead, I bring an excess of everything, often giving items away once I arrive.

For me, travel is about peace and relaxation, so I look for destinations that can provide a calm environment. I also make sure to have health insurance, which was a requirement for my previous trips to Ireland, though I’m unsure if this is still mandatory.

There are many things I’d love to see replicated in Nigeria, especially infrastructure and cleanliness. In places like Ireland, roads are well-maintained, and utility services are reliable, with no litter on the streets. They also take care of historical landmarks, which are preserved beautifully, unlike the often rundown or neglected sites in Nigeria.

When I’m away from Nigeria, I miss the energy—the unique vibrancy and hustle of everyday life here. While it’s calming to be abroad, there’s a point where you start to crave the familiar liveliness of home.

On my travel bucket list are the United States, Canada, Spain, and Germany. These are places I hope to visit in the future.